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The Girlfriend Sex Test: How beddable are you?
The Girlfriend Sex Test
NOTE:
Give yourself fifty points to start out with. Subtract or add points based on your answers below. Choose only one answer, per question. Pick the one that best describes your feelings. And, remember, be honest with yourself! For more details about the meaning of your answers, order a copy of The Girlfriend Test.
1. Are you sexually experienced?
I started my sex life between the ages of 14 and 20 (15)
I began having sex between the ages of 21 and 25 (5)
I am still a virgin (0)
I had sex for the first time after the age of 25 (-20)
I had sex before the age of fourteen (-20)
2. Do you know how to bring yourself to orgasm?
Yes, but I don't do it very often (-10)
No, I have never masturbated (-20)
Yes, and I enjoy regular masturbation (10)
3. Are your sexual boundaries consistent?
Always. I know myself and keep to my rules (15)
I keep to my rules most of the time. (-15)
I'm a free spirit and go with what feels right (-25)
4. Are you up to date with your reproductive health check-ups?
Yes, I see my Gynecologist at least annually and feel comfortable talking to her about anything (20)
I go regularly, but I'm a bit shy about asking a lot of questions (5)
I go to the gyn in a sporadic way, usually when I have a yeast infection I rarely go (-15)
I never see a gynecologist (-20)
5. Do you know how to make sexual requests?
I'm totally shy when it comes to talking about sex with a man (-20)
I can talk about some things but not others (-10)
I'm pretty open and comfortable talking about my needs (15)
I think all I talk about is sex with a man (-5)
6. Do you understand male physiology?
Lord no! That's his department, isn't it? (-20)
I've got the basics down and know how to please a man (10)
I've bought a book on the subject, so I feel pretty confident (15)
7. Do you know how to ask men about what they like?
Yikes. No Way. I'm afraid he'll think I know too much (-15)
I'm practicing this and getting better (5)
I love to ask men how I can make the experience better for them (15)
8. Do you practice safer sex?
I always ask about an AIDS test, always use a condom and never have unprotected oral sex (25)
I use a condom but do engage in unprotected oral sex (-10)
I use a condom most of the time (-20)
I sometimes use a condom (-30)
I rarely use a condom because I don't think I'm at risk (-50)
9. Do you know how to say no to sex?
I mostly use body language, but usually get my message across (-20)
I am sometimes verbally rude (-15)
I sometimes have sex with people I don't want to because it's easier than saying no (-25)
I pay attention to my needs and use kindness and honesty to set my boundaries. I never do anything I don't want to do. (20)
10. Do you know when to say yes to sex?
My intuition has been pretty good at gauging the trustworthiness of a man. (10)
I'm bad at trusting men, so I like to talk about all the trust issues before having sex. (15)
I'm hit and miss. Too many times, I trust the wrong person. (-10)
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Dr. Wendy Walsh's interest is Attachment Theory, a psychological, evolutionary and ethological theory for understanding interpersonal relationships. Dr. Walsh's mission is to help people find true emotional intimacy, have satisfying sex lives, and raise healthy children, in a world where the shape of families, couplings, and communication styles has changed dramatically.
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The Girlfriend Test is the ultimate guide to being a better date and a better mate. It is a chance for women to look at their own dating blunders on the road to commitment. |
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The BoyfriendTest is the definitive tool foir any woman intent on choosing the right man to be her best friend and lover. |
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"Well done, Ms. Walsh! Today I saw your entertaining interview on The Early Show, CBS. You convinced me - at the gym running on the treadmill facing the tv - to check out your website. Tired of narcissistic men (save me please from these assholes), I am planning now to buy your book. Very good interview, sister."
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